You might feel you're always on the edge of losing your partner. Number 3 is a clear indication that SPACE must happen and it's also a clear sign that you or her might be having security issues. "You need to give me some freaking space! I can not take it anymore" You become needy and clingy after the initial spark and emotionally smother your partner.Įverything feels okay and then, out of nowhere, she just snaps and screams, Next example - very common for the nice guy and for women too. More casual dating and lots of space is a starting solution. If you often find yourself in many instant relationships, there's certainly a space problem here. Often, it quickly sucks the fun out of it and makes being together strange because it feels like something is missing. It must happen because without any clear indication or declaration that a commitment is agreed upon, you'll soon start questioning what is really going on. In this case, SPACE again is a very good thing. This differs from the first one because normally there's little or no sex. No lead was taken, therefore no path can be seen. Yet neither one of you actually said or made a commitment leading to doubt and subsequent confusion. Before you even knew what was happening, you became an INSTANT assumed couple. You were so into each other when you first met, you spent practically every waking moment together. The instant boyfriend and girlfriend mistake. It MUST happen because neither one of you are ready for the next step. Which is fine is that is what you want, but if you're looking for a relationship, it become much more difficult to move forward. They often end as abruptly as they started.
In this case SPACE is a good (highly advisable) ACTION to take because relationships that start on a purely physical level is NEVER a good start. One of you becomes unsure and starts to question where things are going or i this is what you really want. Often your life responsibilities get pushed back and things can easily get out of hand. However, as always in these cases, one of you eventually backs away because it become too much. You met, slept with each other right away, and the sex was so amazing, BOTH of you couldn't get enough of it. Sorry to hear that and there are many reasons why this happens to a couple. You're in a relationship and she told you she just needs some space. When you first meet or interact with a girl, you feel like if you're not constantly pushing it or doing something to be with her - she'll wind up with another guy.
You're reluctant against even trying out of fear of losing her forever. It doesn't make logical space to step away and she'll like you more. You don't understand how giving a woman space can increase her feelings for you.You'll do anything to stop it from happening again. Deep down you know it's a real problem for you. You've entered a few relationships in the past and y ou always get too close way too fast.You're currently in a relationship with her and she's telling you she now needs her space, but you don't want to lose her or make it worse.Choose the one that applies and your specific answer will follow: This is all happening to you for a reason. Remember, there are only TWO options she can and will sooner or later choose. In the dating world the fleeing part is obvious, you'll push her away and/or she'll break up with you leaving too wonder when and where it all went wrong.įighting is a little different however when there's little or no attraction already in place - and you're not giving her the right space, it leads to a nasty rejection from her. Her reaction will ultimately be to FLEE or FIGHT from you. It's doesn't matter if you're a kind-hearted good intentioned man such as yourself.īy not giving a woman space, smothering her, being overly needy and constantly seeking her approval, will make ANY woman FEEL like she's being chased. When someone or something is coming after us, when it feels like we're being chased, when the space between us closing in quickly - it can become a very real and often frightening situation.Įven if you were to remove the "stranger danger" of it all, the instinctual emotional urges feel exactly the same for a woman. We are indisputably designed as humans to do one of two things when we are being chased: One rule of attraction implicitly states, when we chase those we are attracted to, they will run quicker than Forest Gump on steroids.
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